Stop the bullying in schools

After hearing and reading about Lawrence King and his family, my heart aches for them after this senseless tragedy.

My kids did not understand what it takes to have someone hate you so much for the way you act or dress that they shoot you. I told them there are many sick people in this world and to make sure that they report any bullying, bragging about having a knife or a gun or any weapon immediately to an adult at the school they are at and that they could do that anonymously. Even a few of the junior high teachers at Mesa Verde told them that, and I am so grateful that it was open for discussion.

Tolerance is taught at our schools and presented in a manner to teach children to accept all others and not to judge and do harm. We have a zero tolerance rule like most schools in Ventura County. Is it enforced? When there have been instances of violence, yes, but to what degree- reward the student with a day off from school?

What about bullying? I am not blaming the schools. In Moorpark we have some incredible teachers, administration and staff that will not stand for it. But to move the victim from class to class so they will not get bullied- how is that fair? The bullies who thrive on this negative activity win day after day. The victims are afraid to report the bullying and some call it teasing, but time after time tragedies like this one teach us that it has to stop, and now.

Please do not let Larry's brave life be in vain. Teach your children at home to value human differences and cultures as well as transgender issues and gay issues. No matter if you believe in gay rights or not, do not teach your children your hate. Step out of your hatred for some groups and teach tolerance, acceptance and love.

We are one planet, ultimately one people. Remember the Golden Rule? Treat others how you want to be treated. Do not depend on schools to teach morals: You are the parent, the grandparent. That is your job. Too many people use the schools and then blame the schools that this is not instilled in their children. This is your job and always has been. Just as we separate religion and school, we do not want others' values forced down our throats.

I know the responses will be that I am a bleeding heart liberal, but if that means that I know that when my children step outside, go to the mall, a college, or schools, they will be safe, I do not care. I take responsibility for my actions and have taught my children to treat others with the dignity and respect they deserve. Yes, I am a caring human being, and I am proud that my whole family is that way too, just like millions of others on this beautiful planet. Lisa Padilla Moorpark